
in my experience most girls will put the group before understanding an individual person and what they are experiencing, it is on some real sociology shit the way they have a tribe mindset, and the obsession with being similar and following trends is mind boggling to me, being a girl in a group is genuinely social signaling power through materialism and social games, before anyone calls me a pick me trust me this is not for me to be chosen this is cause of the distress this topic causes me (2)-
I understand saying negative things like “girls aren’t good friends” really does make it seem like I’m the problem, but I honestly was just saying that as a phrasing to get my point across that I thinks good friend is someone who is willing to understand turbulence in your life, that people are imperfect, and that not everyone is the same (this isn’t even coming from how I’ve been treated but how I treat my friends)