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i’m 19 and still haven’t done anything but kiss 💔 i feel so behind but i also don’t want a hookup i need to know the person
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Anonymous 2w

Babe, my love, sugar and spice, you are not behind You are perfectly fine there is no race to catch a body count I PROMISE you The way you want is perfectly normal and perfectly okay, please don’t feel like you NEED to have sex I’m telling you this as someone who went away for college and had my body count sky rocket, it makes you feel like shit when you feel like you HAVE to have one or HAVE to do that to be cool or fit in or whatever, I promise you you are perfectly fine! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

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Anonymous 2w

You definitely not behind. Trust me, you want your first time to be with someone significant….

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Anonymous 2w

You're not behind on anything lol and I'm not even just saying that to be nice, 19 is barely into college

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Anonymous 2w

Lost it at 18. Just definitely do it with someone that is going to be you through the good and bad times no matter what

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Anonymous 2w

ur good don’t feel pressured your moment will come

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Anonymous 2w

Coming from someone who lost their virginity at 17 due to peer pressure I lowkey regret it every day and I’m 19 now

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Anonymous 2w

Girl, don’t sweat it! I didn’t even have my first kiss yet and I’m about to be 20😝

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Anonymous 2w

If it makes you feel better I'm 24 and still haven't had my first kiss 💀

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Anonymous 2w

It’s all good honestly kissing is the best

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I’m 21 and lost mine at 16 due to pressure, and when I got out of that relationship at 18 a week before I left for college I thought I wanted what I did, and it turned out to be just hell 🤦‍♀️ I also very much regret it, it was short lived fun at the expense of my mental health

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