
It depends which side you coming from, most dudes can smash without dating or thinking of it, a lot of girls can date without thinking of smashing. If a dude smashed and dash, 1 he never saw as girlfriend material, 2 you were probably lose goose and dudes hate that, if girl smashed and dashed 1 hot but boring, 2 broke, 3 rebound, 4 she was loose goose and not girlfriend material