
don't waste it on a hookup, be 100% sure you're ready, and have it be with someone who will be respectful of you and your body, bc it will most likely hurt the first couple of times you do it because you're body is not used to it. it typically it's not going to feel great the first couple of times. foreplay is a very good thing especially if you want an orgasm bc it might not happen from sex itself the first time.