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Do you ever crush on someone so hard that it literally hurts to not be talking to them or am I just insane
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Anonymous 1w

I’ve felt it, it’s probably more like limerence than a crush but I know what you’re talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

What’s the difference?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Limerence is more intense and it’s basically getting attached to an ideal version of them. They’re very hard to get over. It often occurs when you’re able to get a little bit of a connection but there’s some distance. To not be so attached you really have to not put them on a pedestal, it’s hard and takes time unfortunately

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’ve been lowkey highkey attached to the idea of this person for like 2 years and we’re not even that close, but lately we’ve been talking more, so maybe that’s what this is 😭 we only see each other once every few weeks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah it kinda does sound like it. Maybe search a little more into it to see if that’s really what you’re feeling and then you could follow what they say to do so it’s not such an intense feeling. Good luck you to

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