Anonymous wing_leader 6d

Yep I am tired of treating this woman the best I can when she doesn’t seem to appreciate me so let’s see what happens here

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Anonymous OP 6d

She is wasting your time, I’d move on to someone who appreciates you! Hope it works out nonetheless.

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Anonymous wing_leader 6d

Yeah I am bro

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Anonymous #2 6d

Well it’s started

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Anonymous OP 6d

That’s dumb as bricks

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Anonymous OP 6d

You should have communicated your problems like an adult instead of creating some “test” for her to fail

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Anonymous #2 6d

Already did

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Anonymous #3 6d

There is a standard there. Then when she’s not holding to that standard do I want to keep trying or find somebody else who appreciates me?

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Anonymous OP 5d

i dont think its about appreciation. idk how to explain this. i think you just need to communicate with her and find out each others love languages and what she likes and what she doesnt like. thats one thing i never did with my ex and it ultimately ended our relationship. communication is the most vital thing you can do here, instead of just leaving questions unanswered.

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Anonymous OP 5d

if you just go without telling her how you feel like she doesnt appreciate you, youll never know her side and what she feels too. instead of expecting her to do something, just talk to her about it.

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Anonymous #3 5d

We’ve already talked about this she knows exactly how I feel I know how she feels. I go out of my way to help and do whatever I can but she can’t send a simple text like it’s not worth my time.

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Anonymous OP 5d

ive been where you are. ive been where she is. literally i was in the same exact situation with my ex. we kept bickering and it felt like he was picking a fight over every little thing. had me stressed out for MONTHS. so i was the one who ultimately had to end it bc i had enough of him not feeling like i was doing enough. i felt drained. maybe ur gf feels drained too. so i think the best thing here then is to end it. i had to go through the same exact thing. i was with my ex for nearly 4 years.

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Anonymous OP 5d

but in the end it was better i ended things when i did, bc the relationship was adding more stress to my life than it was taking the stress away. maybe ur gf is just stressed also and needs you to give her space and not make her feel suffocated. idk for me, my ex made me feel super suffocated and like i had to cater to his every single need every second of the day, and it was just too much.

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