Confidence is sexy, but it might just be intimidation?

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yes

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I just get scared of coming off as weird im a bigger guy so it can happen

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could be feminism bringing out the "don't approach women anywhere" standard; could be the threat of being labeled a harasser from attempting to approach; could be that you've risen so high that they don't think they can reach your level (out of their league)

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I see countless posts on this app talking about how women in general don’t want to get approached

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