Anonymous #8 1d

this

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Anonymous #9 1d

Nobody has ever fucking said that to a man or anyone else

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Anonymous #9 1d

All we’re told is that we’re lazy and need to lose weight wdym

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Anonymous #4 22h

It has certainly been said to me! Especially in high school I was told I should give the less attractive guys a chance and if I didn’t I was being shallow

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Anonymous #9 22h

That’s not the same thing at all

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Anonymous #4 22h

That is literally the exact thing I said in my initial comment. Many chubby and less attractive guys are given the notion that despite their looks women should give them a chance anyway, this is reinforced by both men and women

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Anonymous #9 22h

And guys are never encouraged to go for the chubby women?

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Anonymous #6 21h

In my experience no, women are told they need to lose weight, put on makeup, get their hair done, nails done, fake eyelashes, plastic surgery, etc to be appealing to men.

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Anonymous #9 21h

And chubby men are never normally told to lose weight and try to look attractive?

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Anonymous #9 21h

YOU being told to lower your standards is not the same as men being told that you WILL lower your standards. That’s ridiculous and you know it. We get told the same shit you do, you just can’t handle the fact that men are allowed to say no to you

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Anonymous #6 21h

I can’t say never but it’s definitely not at the same rate women are shamed for being fat. There have been instances of college parties putting a weight limit for women to enter. Not one for men tho. Also notice how ozempic and GLP-1’s are almost exclusively marketed towards women along with fad diets and diet pills. And how marketing for weight loss is different between men and women. Men are told to lose weight to be strong and healthy, women are told to lose weight because they’re disgusting

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Anonymous #4 21h

Men are allowed to say no, the same way women are allowed to say. The difference is that no one shames you for rejecting a fat or ugly woman. We’re told were ungrateful shallow bitches for rejecting fat or ugly men

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Anonymous #9 21h

Actually, men get shamed all the time for being fat. The difference is that we don’t admit that we care, but we absolutely hear it all the time. And the reason why glp-1s are marketed towards women is because women tend to have insecurity. Men have to act like nothing phases them or else they get called pathetic. And as for the frat party thing, that’s because frats objectify women. No argument there

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Anonymous #9 20h

Men are absolutely shamed for rejecting a fat or ugly woman. Men are frequently labeled shallow for this hell there’s a whole movie about a guy like this

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Anonymous #9 20h

And I’m sure that there is more weight stigma for women than men with all of the body dysmorphia dynamics but to say that chubby men face no shame or discrimination for the same things at all is literally ignorant to actual statistics, culture and stigma

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