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i been w my gf for about a month and a half. everythings so easy w her, but i can't help but think that one day ill realize shes js like the others who hurt me. monkey brain wants to leave but ik she hasn't hurt me yet. ik i'm js scared but fuck its hard
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Anonymous 1w

What makes you think she’ll hurt you?

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Anonymous 1w

talk to her abt it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i haven't had a healthy relationship before yk? like i know from a logical perspective she's given me no reason to sound the alarm, but in the past i've seen that my partners weren't as great as they seem by this point and i haven't gotten that w her yet. she still seems as amazing as the day we met but it's so hard to trust when ive been hurt so much before yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i plan on it, but we're long distance for the holidays and it's something i'd rather talk about in person w her. over text it's much harder to get your point across and i wanna make sure she understands that i still care about her and don't want to leave, but that i just want her to know that i'm afraid because of the past

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yeah def wait til in person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

That makes sense, and I’m sorry you feel that way, I’m not sure if this will help but always remember everything is a new page, and if she knows abt how people have loved you maybe she’ll be more aware and understanding ifykwm

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