Sooo....my boyfriend isn't super down with the Igbta.
Like he doesn't proudly hate them but he doesn't really fuck with them. I'm bi and he knows that and supports me. Like hes not uncomfy when I talk about crush I had on girl chars in shows or anything.
he doesn’t “support” you.. he views that part of your sexuality as meaningless. men like that dont suddenly become social justice warriors for their bi girl friend. he doesnt it take it seriously.
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Anonymous#11d
Idk I mean like I said I’ve talked about celebrity crushes who are girls before and like my first really big crush (which just so happened to be a girl) and he doesn’t downplay it or anything like that
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AnonymousOP1d
youre delusional.
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Anonymous#11d
Aw darn
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AnonymousOP1d
it doesnt matter to him if you like girls or not because its not important to HIS sexuality. do u not understand men
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Anonymous#11d
Well I’m not a man so no not really.
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AnonymousOP1d
true, sorry babe. hope the dick is good and he treats u well 😭 if yall break up dont go around calling him homophobic cause u willingly stayed
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Anonymous#11d
He treats me so well that’s the freaking problemmmmm. This issue is the ONLYYYYYYYY issue in our relationship
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AnonymousOP1d
what if hes gay
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Anonymous#11d
or bi
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Anonymous#11d
#confused
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Anonymous#11d
#what
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AnonymousOP1d
bc with homophobic guys lwk it be internalized sometimes
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Anonymous#11d
True true true but he’s not like…..he’s not the type of homophobic that seems internalized. He doesn’t HATE gay people
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AnonymousOP1d
hmm maybe he just has a conservative upbringing and still needs to unlearn that. nothing wrong with guiding him in the right direction, but dont try and force change.
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Anonymous#11d
You right you right. I feel like him actively reassuring me that he will always support me and supports how I identify is a step in the right direction