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how do you even bring it up to someone that you want kinky sex but you guys haven’t been intimate yet? I know I don’t want vanilla sex at this point in my life. I just want someone with the similar needs to me
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Anonymous 4w

Honestly, I usually bring it up before we get intimate for the first time on one of the earlier dates. You can just lightly ask if they have any kinks or fantasies when you’re flirting. Anybody who is actually kinky will respond positively to that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

it’s a little intimidating because we’ve been on a few dates and haven’t talked about anything sexual and I feel like he thinks i’m innocent or something idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah. Gotta bring it up. Otherwise you will be unhappy in less than a week

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