Anonymous #2 61w

I never had a chance and college life has cemented every "assumption" (i.e. factual foresight) that I had

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Just cause I said they aren’t crazy about me doesn’t mean that I resent them, I still regard women really highly i’m not complaining about women not liking me romantically, im complaining about people equate women not liking someone romantically to being a bad person. You can be a good person and not appeal to women in a conventional sense thats what Im trying to say

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I love your point about changing myself to adhere tho, since that is part of the journey im going though. I can completely accept the fact that i have confidence issues, i might have internalized biases as well and I am actively working on them. I do agree that that is important!

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I think that makes sense but is a different argument, I can stand behind what you are saying about “what appeals to women” being more than being a good person. Im just saying that in my life experience online (irl is way better tbh), many people think “not appealing to women” = sucky person. Which I am arguing is not true.

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Anonymous OP 60w

Thank you sm for having a respectful conversation about this cause its rare that the topic is even discussed😎

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