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The person I’m dating who we talked about said he loved me after less than a month of dating. I just feel grossed out. Please help
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Anonymous 2w

*talked about going slow with. This was a boundary I put up before we started dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

If they’re already crossing boundaries a month into the relationship, imagine how many other possible boundaries they may cross in the future and take your next step based off of that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

See that’s what I’m thinking but pretty much everything else is green flags. I just feel so gross. He’s going to explain more later today but I just don’t want to see him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Everything is green flags in the honey moon phase of a relationship because people tend to wear rose colored glasses and ignore small negative things that can eventually turn into something bigger later on. I’d say let him explain but if you still feel gross about it, i would end it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yeah absolutely. I’m really good about my communication in general so believe me when I say I will not hold back. I’d feel kinda dumb breaking up because he said I love you but on the other hand who the hell says it before they’ve been dating even a month??! The worst part is I have a dance to go to tomorrow, a junior senior college one and I invited him since he’s not in my year. He’s the designated driver and everything and I wish he’d just never said it so I could have fun

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