Anonymous #1 2w

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Anonymous OP 2w

lmao but idk your situation, you could fr just be overthinking and a little sensitive rn (which is okay!)

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Anonymous OP 2w

i’d just start paying more attention and try to see if it’s just a sometimes thing or all the time thing. at some points in a relationship it just kinda naturally calms down and you just put in less effort or you go through phases.

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Anonymous #1 2w

i’m a big over thinker and certainly sensitive (because i’ve been burned out of nowhere in the past) but i try to work on it as much as i can 😖

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Anonymous OP 2w

no i’m literally the exact same way. i’m constantly like “you still love me? you still like me? you’re not bored of me? you’re not annoyed by me? you still like hanging out with me?” but i try to tell myself if he didn’t wanna be here he wouldn’t

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Anonymous #1 2w

i know, same - but i feel like it’s so annoying and i feel so guilty because it can be so mentally exhausting, so i try to work on it, but i also hate the feeling of feeling alone in my own relationship

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Anonymous OP 2w

literally exactly. like i need validation but i don’t want it to bother you and become a problem at the same time. i think there’s probably a healthy mix im just trying to find it

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Anonymous #1 2w

i generally try to regulate and ask myself if this is a big issue or little issue, and depending on how much it bothers me that’s how i decide whether or not to bring it up

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Anonymous OP 2w

yes! i’ll step back and i’m like “okay is he taking a normal amount of time for himself or is he legit being distant” we’ve had a few deep convos about it and he understands but for the most part i think we have a good mix of alone time and together time. he’s honestly the best bf ive ever had so it’s not that bad now but sometimes i remember the past and it still worries me. and fr just reminding myself if he didn’t wanna be here, he wouldn’t be always helps me

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Anonymous #1 2w

yeah, that’s what i try to remind myself too, and my bf is also the best i’ve ever had rn so i try to remind myself im just being anxious and silly and try to calm tf down

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Anonymous OP 2w

lol it can just be hard sometimes. but we got this! i believe in us! can’t self sabotage a good thing because of fear and doubt

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Anonymous #1 2w

it’s hard some days, but we work on it to become better partners 😵‍💫 as difficult as it can be, i want to be the best i can be

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Anonymous OP 2w

yes! i tell myself that it’s hard but it’s worth it and it’ll make the relationship stronger in the end

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