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I can’t help but have this innate strong desire to objectify women. I want to touch them all the time and squeeze them especially their ass and tits. But I know better to respect women for who they are than what they are but my god do I have this
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Anonymous 12w

well idk if that’s necessarily objectifying per se, it sounds more like cuteness aggression for the female form (if that makes sense)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

How would you describe objectifying then?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

well okay maybe it is on a surface level but it's interesting because you seem to already recognize a tension between attraction-as-instinct and respect-as-value, and you’re trying to hold both.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Idk that does seem objectifying to me. Like it’s good he’s acknowledging it but it does seem objectifying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

would you say physical touch is your love language or this is just a semi sexual urge to touch

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

yeah you’re right it just reads differently when someone is acknowledging it ig

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I feel like I’m too self aware and overthinking about myself and the girl and I fumble so hard. I’m just tryna have fun but I’m seeking intimacy and sex so harddd

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

is it all women or just the ones you’re attracted to?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Yeah it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Just the ones I’m attracted to. I’m quite picky

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

well then isn’t that just you being appropriately sexually attracted to the people you like?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Yeah but I feel like I am wayyyy too sexually attracted to them and I feel like I’m objectifying them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

So how about this, the next time you start talking to someone you’re genuinely attracted to like say you want a relationship with this person, whether it be sexual or romantic, wait a bit, let yall get comfy with each other, and talk to her abt it, do not, I repeat DO NOT start off with that topic tho, yall need to be comfy in order to have uncomfy conversations Every woman sees it differently, it all depends on time, how well you know each other, comfortability, and where that relationship is-

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Heading

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Lol I don’t talk about intention right from the get go and I do wanna get to know them first but yeah I feel such that strong desire and objectification pre convo and then in convo. When you mention talk to her about it, what do you mean? Like say “I like you and I want to …. with you”?

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