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i push people away because they’re going to leave eventually. I’d rather them leave on my terms than theirs.
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Anonymous 4w

Avoidant attachment and hard agree

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Anonymous 4w

yeah keep telling urself that bud

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

keep telling urself people are gonna leave I’m sure that’s gonna help u

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

They do leave lol. I’ve had people leave with no intervention on my part. They always do. It’s called being a placeholder in someone’s life until they find better.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Why think of yourself as a place holder instead of others as a place holder in ur life? You’ll find your tribe but u gotta be willing to accept them and show want them to stay

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I’ve been told by so many people, people who didn’t even know each other. It’s bound to be true especially if people with no correlation at all is staying the same thing

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