i want to tell my partners that a really great gift for me would be for them to tell me things they like about me but the moment i say that i sound like i hate myself…i don’t, i just like their approval a lot hdkfhdksj
i do feel a bit like a boring person but that’s not hating myself and it’s not like i expect them to fix it for me, i just want reassurance that there is something about me that draws them back i guess