Confessions on Sidechat | I’m a dude and I have a crush on my trans friend (w->m). They don’t know at the moment and probably never will. I’ve never been lgbt ever sexually but they’ve made me feel things I’ve never felt before.

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Confessions 4w

I’m a dude and I have a crush on my trans friend (w->m). They don’t know at the moment and probably never will. I’ve never been lgbt ever sexually but they’ve made me feel things I’ve never felt before.

Anonymous 4w

I think that’s fine!!

Anonymous 3w

time to come to terms with the fact that “I’ve never been lgbt ever” is no longer a true statement for you. nothing wrong with that, just don’t be calling yourself straight if you’re pining after a man

Anonymous 4w

Go for it and try to hit it

Anonymous 3w

she's not gonna fall for you dawg

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Anonymous 4w

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Anonymous 4w

wtf.

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Anonymous

#5 3w

She won’t, I know her preference but I just wanted to say how I feel somewhere

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Anonymous

OP 3w

“she”?

Anonymous

#6 3w

My friend says she or he is fine

Anonymous

OP 3w

I’ve asked for clarification but they’ve always given me a shrug

Anonymous

OP 3w

trans people are under a lot of pressure to assimilate into cis society and to challenge cis norms as little as possible, i.e. a transmasculine person who is known to be trans and/or may not perfectly pass will feel expected to leave room for cis people to treat them like a gender they aren’t. if you know this person is FTM then what’s stopping you from defaulting to “he”?

Anonymous

OP 3w

btw, “he or she” does not automatically include “they”, so let’s also stop referring to him in particular with pronouns he explicitly did not sign off on idk man the way you talk about him conveys very clearly that you don’t do a lot of thinking about trans issues. no wonder he shrugs you off when you ask him for elaboration, he can most likely tell that you have a lot more learning to do before he would wanna attempt those conversations with you