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I'm losing all my friends and I've had a hard time making friends in college same pattern over and over again am I the problem
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Anonymous 4w

Yeah, but how much of that weight is shared is based on what caused them to stop being your friend. I’ve had people stop being my friend bc the way I talked annoyed them, granted theres definitely friendships where I was 100% the whole problem in them ending, but not that one.

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Anonymous 4w

I got mad at this friend for doing something fucked up imo now all my friends are just acting weird

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Anonymous 4w

Like their texts are very dry imo

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Anonymous 4w

They left me with a creep to go talk to another girl then ditched

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Anonymous 4w

Even there friend called them out on it cus they have done the same thing to them

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Anonymous 4w

And then proceeded to completely victimize themselves

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Anonymous 4w

And then there friend said it wouldn't get in the way of our friendship now they are acting weird too

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Anonymous 4w

And the person has talked a hit about people in the friend group that they don't know but they probably wouldn't believe me

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Anonymous 4w

Shit I meant

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

This is why I’m a big fan of not just ghosting someone. You do the world a favor by detailing what they did wrong directly.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

What did they do?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Damn, I don’t think you’re the problem in this situation at all. Insane cruelty to go dry after you were wronged by someone. Have you contacted them separately? They’d be in the wrong for this too, but maybe they’re just worried about stirring things up again

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

The blocked me in everything

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