Anonymous #1 21w

i want to get better about it, i rly do, but it's just so hard. i've never had family or friends who push me to do anything, and i was never taught how to have a work ethic. so now at 19 i have to teach myself how to get one w no help, it ain't easy but i try, even tho it doesn't look like it

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Anonymous OP 21w

well at least you’re trying. It’s a cruel world out there, but there’s also plenty of people, who you may or may not know yet, that will be rooting for you to succeed. Always strive to do your best, and live at peace knowing you did everything you could.

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Anonymous #2 21w

oop

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Anonymous #2 21w

if ur in school or got a job thennnnn

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Anonymous #3 21w

no

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Anonymous OP 21w

Working or are you just living at home?

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Anonymous #3 21w

i don't work and i live at home

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Anonymous OP 21w

How do your parents feel about it

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Anonymous #3 21w

they don't care at all lol

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Anonymous OP 21w

Have they ever mentioned college or a job? And would they pay for college?

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Anonymous #3 21w

i'm a college dropout lol, and they've both said they don't care if i don't go to school again and that they dont care that i don't have a job as long as i run errands for them which i've always done

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Anonymous #4 21w

prove it 🤣

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Anonymous OP 21w

I rarely if ever clean unless i’m drunk (for some reason i get the urge to clean while drunk) i do nothing at work all day, and I dont do schoolwork or study, and I skip class

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Anonymous #4 21w

i don't even have a job nor am i in school lol and my room is prob a biohazard at this point

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Anonymous OP 21w

Idk get drunk or high then clean apparently im not the only one this works for so. Get drunk/high and clean

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Anonymous #4 21w

yea i'm not doing either of this lol

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Anonymous OP 21w

Thats fair. Maybe u have ADHD and stimulants can help? Idk

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Anonymous #4 21w

i don't have adhd

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Anonymous OP 21w

I mean im not saying you for sure do but a lotta “lazy” people I’ve known are just struggling with executive dysfunction. Which is usually either adhd or depression. You should really consider getting assessed for those

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Anonymous #4 21w

i have major depressive order and autism

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Anonymous OP 21w

Oh do you think the mdd might be treatment resistant?

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Anonymous #4 21w

it isn't

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Anonymous OP 21w

I guess this is a bootstraps issue. You gotta make urself do things. You’ll be happier with a cleaner room I promise you

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Anonymous #4 21w

i've had a clean room plenty of times and it's done nothing to make me feel any better

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Anonymous OP 21w

Honestly i relate to this a bit. I’ve run out of advice tbh

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Anonymous #4 21w

thanks

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