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Is secretly talking on the phone to a guy friend until almost two in the morning cheating?
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Anonymous 6w

If you’re hiding it from your partner, it’s probably at least emotionally cheating. If they know about it and it isn’t breaking any set boundaries in the relationship, I don’t see the issue.

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Anonymous 6w

I’ve totally done this as a guy with a girl friend before, all that matters is your intentions. If you ain’t tryna cheat then you ain’t cheating. Don’t take that too far tho

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Anonymous 6w

It might not be cheating in the physical sense but it can still be emotional cheating

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Anonymous 6w

No

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Anonymous 6w

Not at all

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Anonymous 6w

Why do u have a guy friend in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

Idk I don’t usually. He’s a newer friend and I just really like spending time with him. I also like hoe he talks to me like I’m a capable adult

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Why don’t u date him then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

Well I’m already engaged and everyone really wants me to stay with this guy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Ur engaged and secretly talk to him at night? Hmm are you saying you don’t wanna be with ur current guy but everyone does so that’s why ur with him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

Yeah pretty much

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

He’d kill me if he knew about it so that’s why I have to hide it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Then at the very least you’re being dishonest in the relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Yeah so that confirms ur a cheater

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

How does that confirm it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

Because having friends is healthy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

How much do you have to hate yourself to stay in a relationship you don’t like

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

It’s not about hating myself, it’s about loyalty to my family

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Anonymous 6w

Because he’s wealthy, has a good career, comes from a good family, is very devoutly religious, and can give me a good future. Plus if we were married it would help both our family’s business interests according to my dad

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Anonymous 6w

Honestly I want my mind to be changed so so so badly. But I can’t get over the fact that if I broke things off my parents would kick me out and shun me so I’d lose all my loved ones and be homeless

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Anonymous 6w

Tbh I don’t think it’ll become physical cheating at all since I’m waiting til marriage and literally the only thing I’ve ever done is a couple small pecking kisses

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Anonymous 6w

I can’t tell him about the friend since I’m not supposed to talk to other men

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Anonymous 6w

Does it count as emotionally cheating if I literally don’t have any feelings at all for my fiance and only have feelings for my guy friend? Because like I’m not two timing, I only have feelings for one guy

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Anonymous 6w

I wouldn’t call it a boundary because to him gods word is biblical law, so he sees me talking to men outside my family as me sinning against god and breaking the law

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Anonymous 6w

In my defense, it’s not up to me that I’m in the relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Who choose it for u arrange marriage?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

My parents chose it for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Can u get out of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

If I broke it off my parents would disown me so I’d be homeless and lose all my loved ones

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I’m in the middle of a sim sit now

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