Like it's fine to bring it up. My first time was a spur of the moment thing. But after that night he would ask every time he came over and I was honest and told him that I was going through a period where intimacy disgusts me so just wait until I make an advance. I am so relieved that he doesn't push after the first "No", but it's still tiring having to say it the next day and the next when I already said I'll let him know when I'm ready

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