
man I’ve learned someone can love you and have dehumanizing views towards your people. And honestly I don’t think it’s wise to think they won’t ever see us that way too no matter how much it seems like it. Like right now we’re “one of the good ones.” Maybe it’ll never look like it but the truth always gets revealed.
well she already said the racist things and didn’t understand how they were racist but at least knew she hurt me somehow and apologized a lot. I’ve just never forgotten it :/. I feel like she might think that of me because I’ve learned to never think I’m the exception. Ugh it’s just hard bc I live with her. This should be an excuse to move ☹️ but I like my other roommates
She felt comfortable saying that to you because she thought you’d be one those individuals of their race/ethnicity who would speak negatively about fellow people in that category and when she realized oh you aren’t is the only reason she apologized. And the others who just stood at the side might also have preconceived notions as well.