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guys genuinely what do u do if your roommate says very racist things and you’re a minority but you guys have been besties and it’s such a shocker to you. confrontation? heckity no we live together… I don’t want my living space always full of animosity
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Anonymous 3w

IM IN THE SAME SITUATION BRO

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Anonymous 3w

Subtle confrontation; like wow that’s what you think huh is that what you think of me like I’m of the same demographic. If they so much as say, “not you, you’re one of the good ones”. Bail out the truck, gtfo dodge asap. Cause they do think that of you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

BRO WE IN THIS TOGETHER 🫂🫂🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

someone DMed me saying tell them you’re sad instead of angry? I think this may depend on the person but for mine I think it’ll do at least something :) maybe it will for you too? She’s genuinely really kind and sweet otherwise (which is why this juxtaposition gives me whiplash)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

genuinely what do we do bc i don’t wanna be associated with none of that buts she’s still my twin 💔💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

man I’ve learned someone can love you and have dehumanizing views towards your people. And honestly I don’t think it’s wise to think they won’t ever see us that way too no matter how much it seems like it. Like right now we’re “one of the good ones.” Maybe it’ll never look like it but the truth always gets revealed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

well she already said the racist things and didn’t understand how they were racist but at least knew she hurt me somehow and apologized a lot. I’ve just never forgotten it :/. I feel like she might think that of me because I’ve learned to never think I’m the exception. Ugh it’s just hard bc I live with her. This should be an excuse to move ☹️ but I like my other roommates

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I mean I like her too… kind of. Mostly. But they just kinda stood by when she said it not defending me or saying anything so that felt almost just as bad 😀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

She felt comfortable saying that to you because she thought you’d be one those individuals of their race/ethnicity who would speak negatively about fellow people in that category and when she realized oh you aren’t is the only reason she apologized. And the others who just stood at the side might also have preconceived notions as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

that makes sense :(

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