Anonymous #1 20h

If your values change based on the situation, then those aren’t values. They’re excuses

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Anonymous #1 20h

Since she needs a place to stay I assume they not separated

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Anonymous #4 18h

Even if she is she’s a cheater. Maybe it makes it a little better but not good

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Anonymous #4 18h

She replied to a comment saying she was cheating

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Anonymous #5 18h

did you read the rest of the comment?

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Anonymous #4 18h

I’m not addressing the abuse part. I’m only confirming that she cheated

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Anonymous #2 17h

“if your values change based on the situation” so self defense is assault or murder? are you dense? of course the circumstances matter.

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Anonymous OP 17h

people cheat in highly abusive relationships since they aren't safe to break up. the main issue with cheating is being dishonest with your partner and not breaking up when you should. this person had a reason she COULDN'T break up. this post was obviously an accusation/callout when the OOP is the victim.

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Anonymous #4 17h

Murder isn’t “deserved” just because it’s self defense. The point is that there is no other option. She was not forced to cheat. She had no reason to cheat. If she couldn’t get out of that relationship (which she did do) then she probably wouldn’t have been able to cheat either. This is dumb as fuck

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Anonymous #2 17h

do you hear rocks grinding together when you shake your head? she was being abused and couldn’t leave the relationship. finding someone else she could find safety in—both emotionally and for housing, IS fucking necessary. do you think it’s not justified for someone to prioritize their own safety when they’re at risk? because I hope you’re never on a jury if so.

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Anonymous #2 17h

also, just because someone is able to escape now doesn’t mean they were able to escape before. I’m genuinely shocked at how dead-set you are on blaming someone who was being ABUSED. the abuser violated the relationship’s intimacy, and you’re crying about her finding someone to lean on during severe abuse as if she were the aggressor. get over yourself.

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Anonymous #4 17h

BROTHA SHE CHEATED BECAUSE SHE WANTED DICK. If she was abused, it’s unrelated. Stop theory crafting this bullshit

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Anonymous #2 17h

“stop theory crafting, my made-up fiction about her wanting just sex is obviously correct! it’s not like she’s close enough with the guy for him to offer a place to stay!” do you hear yourself

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Anonymous #2 17h

Bud I don’t like the cheating either but you actin insane. She obviously cheated cause she was bein abused. Don’t make it right but it’s less bad

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Anonymous OP 17h

Bullshit. There was no reason to cheat

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Anonymous #2 16h

if ur abusive you deserve to be cheated on why's this so confusing

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Anonymous #2 14h

pov this guy is the abuser that the gf cheated on lol

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Anonymous #6 14h

You shouldn’t cheat, period

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Anonymous #2 14h

And you shouldn’t abuse people. She owes that man NO loyalty after what he did to her. Stop trying to be superior. You’re fucking stupid

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Anonymous #7 14h

You have no values. You think ever situation is up to your warped discretion

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Anonymous #2 14h

Lmao keep defending the abuser. She still doesn’t owe him loyalty. Also ironic you saying I don’t have values. If someone beat me I don’t owe them LOYALTY. They owed ME loyalty and they broke it by beating me up. Again, you’re stupid

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Anonymous #7 14h

You don’t have values. Everything is up to your warped discretion

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Anonymous #2 14h

He broke loyalty first by touching her. Cry to ya mama idgaf

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Anonymous #7 14h

You have no values

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Anonymous #9 13h

whole time it's the boyfriend

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Anonymous #6 12h

Deadass

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