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i think i might be gay. i have no idea how to tell the girl i'm seeing. we've only been on two dates so it's not super serious, but man do i feel like a dick. i wish i knew before this. she's really fun and kind and beautiful.
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Anonymous 2d

Don’t feel bad! You need to do what’s best for you and ultimately best for both of you since it’s not meant to be. If she’s a kind person she will totally get you

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Anonymous 2d

It would be better to tell her sooner rather than later to save you both the headache

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Anonymous 2d

I’d say tell her how you feel (including feeling bad about it). If she’s chill maybe you could be friends still lowkey

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Anonymous 2d

ask her to peg you

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Anonymous 2d

I would just make sure she knows she is great and everything 🙂‍↕️ in senior yr HS I had a boyfriend come out as gay two days after breaking up with me and everyone convinced me it was bc I was so ugly lol obvi not true. His bf ended up being bi and they invited me to a 3-some but it fked me up for a bit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

not the issue, but i love the attitude

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

i plan to tell her tomorrow. i just feel really bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

thank you for this. i really appreciate it

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