
Well, there’s something to be said about promiscuity. In men and women, those who have partner after partner, it really trains the brain to think of sex as just something casual, and so it makes it harder to really stay true to one person later. It’s like doing drugs, or trying to switch to a new diet. So sure, we prefer the virgin to protect as the archetype. But, I think if the woman has healed this tendency to deal with problems through sex and is conscious enough about the effects ⬇️
as someone I admire a lot once told me “if the love is great enough, it can overcome anything”. And I think I agree. The real question is, is that love great enough? This in the context of marriage you know. And like, well I’ve fucked around a lot, and I’ve made mistakes, and now I’m practicing celibacy and sexual transmutation and I’m aligned with my purpose. It’d be hypocritical of me to expect a “perfect” woman while I’ve committed my errors. So it plays a factor, but not the whole thing