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Do guys actually want girls to approach them
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Anonymous 3w

Yes, one hundred percent

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Anonymous 3w

bro im literally physically a 10 to the overwhelming majority of women but i feel so uncomfortable having to apporach girls and try my hand at that shit. i hate to even say this but i think women control like 60-70 percent of what the dating environment looks like… but i also say that to say that a lot of dudes just ruin it for us… what im trying to say is YES. doesnt matter if im ugly as shit or a 10 in your eyes, if you dont approach me as a man the likelihood ill ever try is like 0

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

part of it is confidence (which im personally working on), but the other problem is our generation has no real solid way of meeting new people other than common spaces like work or school, and if things go sour your life may potentially be ruined. so as a man its already hard to approach if you dont build the confidence to, and its even worse if you ever go online cause youre basically conditioned to feel like a creep/dick for attempting it. its basically a game for the 1 percenter

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

just to close of my nonsensical rambling, dating is really bad rn, i really want women to approach more cause this shit just sucks and i feel like that could help atleast ease things. i also cant blame women for maybe not feeling comfortable doing it tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Did u say 60-70%

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

6 7

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

yeah i said 60-70 percent

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

All I got from that was that he’s hot and SIX SEVEN

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

SIXTH SEVENTHS

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

So ur a 10 I hear

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

id actually say like a strong 8 maybe a 9

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

but my potential could be 10 within the next 6 months honestly. just cause i want to get a lil more muscle on me but im already extremely lean w great veins. and a good face w good eyelashes too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

U sound like a catch im tryna reel u in

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

o yea? dm rn lets see what timing you’re on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Ok maybe I will

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

The other day I approached a guy and told him I thought he was attractive and all he said was oh okay thank you so I said you’re welcome and left 😭🤦‍♀️I was so embarrassed

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Like wouldn’t he have said something more? Like if he thought I was attractive too?

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