Don’t ever let people get to you. Trust me I have felt very behind as someone who has only slept with one person and that was back in high school. I’m almost done with college and haven’t done anything remotely sexual since my ex. I just haven’t found anyone and people respect you more if you have less experience honestly.

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also having sex isn’t everything, i think it’s more important that it’s with someone that you have the right connection with. if you haven’t met them yet there’s no need to rush or pressure yourself

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yeah guys have said to me i “ get brownie “ points for being a virgin but also get mad if u don’t have sex w them after the first hang out

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It’s okay, but it’s certainly not fun and you missed out on so many key experiences. As a 21 year old virgin trying to find a girl, the experience gap is so big, it feels like I’m an infant trying to swim in the ocean with a shark. How can I keep up? Like she could be on her 10th guy, meanwhile I still don’t even know how to hold hands yet. Atp I think it’s probably too late for me to ever turn it around, I’m just too far behind

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