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I broke up with my bf because he continuously made me feel like I wasn’t his type. I’m starting to really miss him tho. Is it worth it to go back? I was so insecure with him knowing I wasn’t his usual type
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Anonymous 4w

As someone who dated someone who constantly made me feel the same way, no. Do not go back. It is stressful and eventually turns into resentment which makes the relationship 10x worse

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Anonymous 4w

Just because you weren’t his usual type doesn’t mean he didn’t love you go back to him if he’s with you it’s because he enjoys being around you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I know I don’t mind that I wasn’t his usual type but I hate that he made me feel that way. I was so insecure being with him & made me feel like he was settling 😪 I can never physically be what he prefers even if I tried

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Did he ever ask you to be what his type was tho like ever tell you out right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I want someone who loves every part of me physically. Because I truly thought he was a work of art. I get compliments from people a lot but it doesn’t matter if the one I want doesn’t see me in that light :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Did he not compliment you at all then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Of course he did. But when his compliments are followed with him checking out girls in front of me or picking apart my appearance it doesn’t feel too genuine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Okay yeah that’s bad don’t go back to him then

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Ugh yes the resentment got so bad :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah you deserve so much better hun, it might take awhile and I know it takes a huge toll on how you view yourself and feel about yourself, but there is always going to be someone out there who values you for you without asking for change or making you feel like you are less than you are

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