Anonymous #8 12w

Grow up

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Anonymous #9 12w

Grow a sense of humor

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Anonymous #8 12w

You’re just not funny😭 you probably call slurs “dark humor”

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Anonymous #8 12w

Grown ass person talkin like a corn addict

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Anonymous #9 12w

Single bitches are mad at me and think I’m a corn addicted man and not an engaged women

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Anonymous #8 12w

Cuz I made a joke where literal splooge is the punchline

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Thank you <3

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Anonymous #8 12w

I don’t think you understand how punchlines work; the punchline of your joke is actually the degradation of OP, not the word splooge😭praying for your husband 🤦🏽‍♂️🙏🏾(see there the punchline is in the phrase “praying for your husband;” this is just more efficient than saying “your husband unfortunately will have to lower his comedic standards” or something akin)

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Anonymous #10 12w

your country is beyond fucked. any hopes of stable family life on an aggregate level is completely shredded to ruins

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Anonymous #7 12w

You’re actually wrong about what a punchline is but I don’t have the energy to fully explain what it is on an anonymous app. Haha op has weak come is that better

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Anonymous #14 12w

I’m literally waiting till engagement to have sex. Why are assuming things here? 😭👎 She just did something that was a turn off i don’t hate her for it that was just wild to do

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Anonymous #7 12w

Tbh I don’t think all of this was that serious 😭

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Anonymous OP 12w

honestly not a good idea cause like what if they are bad and what if yall don’t have flow like 😭

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Anonymous #14 12w

Ah so OP can’t feel bothered when a woman does it because asshole men exist, got it

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Anonymous #15 12w

While the joke did suck a bit, ur right it’s not that deep I was just in awe that someone would get upset at me for not wanting to date them while they are actively having sex w someone else😭

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Anonymous #15 12w

It’s not making uppity people squirm was my personal laugh for the morning

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Anonymous #14 12w

Sex is a big thing for me, I see it as the most intimate connection you can have with someone so I don’t just do it with anyone. I strongly dislike hookup culture specifically because I think sex should be more than 15 minutes of feel good time

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Anonymous #16 12w

all i’m saying is not even OP specifically like even the other men that get so emotional when it’s not exclusive like they haven’t alr been sleeping w other girls and we obviously know about them but when we do it they get mad and emotional im j saying it’s kinda funny to see them so uncomfortable taking their own medicine but also hypocritical of them. Like husbands were allowed to cheat but the wives weren’t? Kings could have bastard children but women would be executed for it? same shit now

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Anonymous OP 12w

You’re so valid and the fact that every woman has dealt with a man or a few who operate the same as the woman you dealt with should be further validation not something to tear you down about and I am sorry for being all jokey in the comments don’t sacrifice your morals for anything

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Ooo you know how to read ai descriptions

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You’re so smart you can operate google ai

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Anonymous #14 12w

The problem is you’re making a lot of assumptions. People are coming in here calling OP insecure for a 100% reasonable take just because other men who have nothing to do with him are assholes. Literally all OP said was they don’t want to date someone who’s sleeping around.

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Anonymous OP 12w

i agree but maybe wait until your dating and like in love? I mean do what you want and if that’s what you wanna do i don’t think it’s a bad thing at all especially cause men never do that. I just think sometimes it takes a while to adjust to eachother and know their preferences and would make the wedding night actually good if you already knew what they liked and they knew your preferences and overall you alr know you go well in that department but again you do you idrc lol.

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I know a kid (14) who ended it cuz he got depression advice from the same source that told him to end it it’s such a great source for complete information that isn’t just regurgitated Reddit info half the time

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Anonymous #13 12w

Oh no women no longer stay with the first man who took interest in them at 17 and we have no fault divorces now. There’s a million things wrong with our country I don’t think the nuclear family model falling out of style is one of them

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Anonymous #13 12w

It really ain’t that bad lol

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Anonymous #11 12w

Might as well let him hit first and get the sex out the way

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Anonymous #8 12w

Two of those problems being 80% of divorces being initiated by women and the court giving a “golden parachute” favoring the woman to take half of a man’s net worth. Marriage has no benefit to men, women most affected.

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Anonymous #21 12w

Real!

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Anonymous #29 12w

Most cringe shi I read this week 🤣

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Anonymous #33 12w

If that’s what you want then you try being friends first. But also this isn’t totally a product of dating apps. People have been seeing several people at once for a while, the apps just widen the pool I guess

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Anonymous #33 12w

But again you should clarify this is what you want from the go, and if it’s harder to find someone that’s probably just how it’s gonna be idk what to say. Stick to your beliefs though it’ll work out eventually

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Anonymous #19 12w

I’m ngl for a lot of people I feel like that ends up just being a difference in morals. Like if you’re having sex outside of a relationship what’s the point of having a relationship instead of friendships in the first place?

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Anonymous OP 12w

Because relationships aren’t just about sex

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Anonymous #19 12w

Not dissing you or anything but whats the difference in a close friendship vs a relationship if the intimacy is openly available to anyone

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Anonymous #19 12w

I worded it poorly, but it still applies. If you’re getting intimacy and lust from someone else, how is that any different from having a really close friend you link w on occasion. Asking a real question here

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Anonymous #19 12w

I feel like I shouldn’t have to clarify that I don’t want the person I’m dating seeing other people tho :( what’s wrong w society today that that’s something you actually have to set boundaries for?? Back in the day my parents had to wait for the landline in their dorm to be open so they could call each other each night😔 there was no question that they were only talking to each other but now social media has made it WAY too easy to be entertaining 10+ people at once. That’s not normal or right

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Anonymous OP 12w

Well that’s hard to put into words. But first of all the intimacy is definitely not available to anyone lol I have standards. Second of all, having sex in general is often, but having sex with someone you love is a truly different experience. And it’s not just having a friend. She’s my best friend and then some. She’s someone I want to be around all the time. Idk how to describe it exactly, but we’re in love, not friendship. I have some great friends in my life, but my girlfriend is special to>

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Anonymous OP 12w

me in such a different way

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Anonymous #33 12w

Lol this is definitely not new. I’m happy for your parents, but idk if you know what the 60s and 70s were like but people were really throwing themselves around

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Anonymous #19 12w

My bad I meant to say having sex in general is fun not often

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Anonymous OP 12w

Have you been in a serious relationship before?

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Anonymous #35 12w

Thank you for explaining this! It’s a false stereotype people think about men in general. When in reality, if you have a group of 20 dudes, it’s usually like 1 person who sleeps around with 20+ women, and the other 19 dudes are either virgins or maybe have been in 1 or 2 relationships and maybe hooked up a couple of times in the past

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Anonymous #27 12w

i think you choose your circle. neither men or women are particularly ”slutty” or whatever you’d want to say. it’s moreso who YOU are that determines if the people you know are participating. that said, the frustration expressed by women may be that it’s a double standard in how men v. women are treated for having more sexual experience. the classic player v. slut scenario.

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Anonymous #19 12w

Only once. We never had sex because it was only 6 months long. Ended up breaking up because she failed all of her classes and went back home😭

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Anonymous OP 12w

wait are you a virgin?

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Anonymous #31 12w

Yeah, I’m in a red state so I’m waiting in case pregnancy occurs (even with contraceptives) so I want to make sure Im willing to have a child with someone if I have sex

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Anonymous OP 12w

Ah sucks sorry. Bottom line, a lot of people view sex differently, and that’s all understandable and influenced by many factors. At the end of the day we should all be respectful and honest about our intentions and our feelings for one another, and it shouldn’t be a problem. You’ll also find a girl who isn’t doing that I’m sure

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Anonymous OP 12w

yeah, no judgement! i do just wanna say that it’s really easy to have strong opinions about people who do have sex, what their morals are, what kind of person they are, etc. (and also what sex itself is like) when you’ve never actually been in their shoes… so just be mindful

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Anonymous #31 12w

Yeah others are welcome to live however they want. My problem with her specifically was how is she gonna have sex two days before trying to go out with ME then get mad when I cancel because I found out😭

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Anonymous #37 12w

I dont think that’s what they want lol

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Anonymous #37 12w

OP is waiting a bit for sex

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Anonymous #43 11w

Lol yeah it’s called a SNEAKY link

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Anonymous #47 11w

I find this difficult not impossible to goon to.

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Anonymous #39 11w

Bro this image search is hilarious

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Anonymous #47 11w

LMAO WTF BRO EVEN PUT HIS @ WHAT FURRY COMMISSIONED THIS HORROR

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Anonymous #39 11w

I did bro. This is from the vault. don’t kink shame me boss. (Commission inspiration btw)

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Anonymous #47 11w

You commissioned a sexualized image of your dog? Im past kinkshaming

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Anonymous #47 11w

You. Enough words.

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