We are long distance and my drive in insistent when we aren’t together. When we are mine was much higher. Now I don’t initiate as much because there was a point where it was near constant rejection. I let him initiate and even then wait it out because it I’m laying a certain way he most definitely will want to have me on top and I kind of hate it. We’ve had discussions about it but little had changed so that’s part of why my drive is less

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