
A famous one black men love to do is when they ask why they love a race, only explaining all the reasons they hate black women- and it’s all just stereotypes and colorism. Or liking let’s say a white women because they are a prize/more desirable and submissive in your mind. Or not liking Indians because they “stink” and are all ugly. Like there’s a lot of casual racism that goes into people having preferences disguised as fetishes
Like I personally prefer someone with somewhat brown skin and curly hair but like..imma still date a white person with straight hair- I just prefer one over the other. Having a preference for a race- gives off fetish if your completely unwillingly to date someone based off their skin color or race alone
Very clear but to play devils advocate for a better understanding, could racist choices be subconscious preferences? Like let’s say you just don’t romantically like Indian women/men and you use the reasoning of a stereotype, could that not be a placeholder for the less thought out actual reason?
I’m running off of Zero sleep rn but regardless you’re still projecting and stereotyping entire races romantically 😭 it’s just better if you don’t realize your doing it ig. I think the only group you shouldn’t date is a group that you aren’t willing to change your faith for that’s kinda it- and that’s for respectful reasons. Everyone else should be based on normal preferences and not race fetishes and fantasies