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I can’t be mad at the white homies for liking white girls, that’s their preference….i prefer black women, they don’t shame me for that, moral of the story ppl have preferences it doesn’t mean that their racist
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Ofc, as long as their reason isn’t racist

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

What would be a racist reason?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Not hanging out with someone BECAUSE of their race,, duh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

But that’s not like a romantic preference it’s a social one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

A famous one black men love to do is when they ask why they love a race, only explaining all the reasons they hate black women- and it’s all just stereotypes and colorism. Or liking let’s say a white women because they are a prize/more desirable and submissive in your mind. Or not liking Indians because they “stink” and are all ugly. Like there’s a lot of casual racism that goes into people having preferences disguised as fetishes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Like I personally prefer someone with somewhat brown skin and curly hair but like..imma still date a white person with straight hair- I just prefer one over the other. Having a preference for a race- gives off fetish if your completely unwillingly to date someone based off their skin color or race alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Very clear but to play devils advocate for a better understanding, could racist choices be subconscious preferences? Like let’s say you just don’t romantically like Indian women/men and you use the reasoning of a stereotype, could that not be a placeholder for the less thought out actual reason?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

I’m running off of Zero sleep rn but regardless you’re still projecting and stereotyping entire races romantically 😭 it’s just better if you don’t realize your doing it ig. I think the only group you shouldn’t date is a group that you aren’t willing to change your faith for that’s kinda it- and that’s for respectful reasons. Everyone else should be based on normal preferences and not race fetishes and fantasies

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