Anonymous #3 4w

Hate comes from the bitterness. That kind of realization only hits hard after a big change. You weren't there when I was being mistreated or ignored or mocked just because of my appearance. There's even a chance you subconsiously have treated someone like the old me less than.

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Anonymous OP 4w

I’ve been fat and I’ve been skinny and I’ve been somewhere in between. I too have struggled with body image, but to project that self loathing onto others isn’t fair to both you or them. You deserve to love who you are, and others deserve to love themselves in turn. Your worth is not dependent on how you look, but what you are. In the end, we will all age, if we are so lucky. We will get saggy, wrinkly, and we will lose conventional beauty. Be kind and love! We are all human!

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Anonymous #3 4w

OK. You can't tell me who I can or cannot find attractive though. I don't like fat guys. It's my preference. People only call me hypocrite after they found out I was fat. If I was still fat, I wouldn't be going out with the guy I have right now. He wouldn't even hit on me. My type used to be different too but something in me changed so this is the kind of person I like now. When we all get wrinkles, I will worry about that when that time comes. Right now is the life I have never had

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Anonymous OP 4w

You can like who you like, that’s fine. I never said you had to date a fat person. But to say “I can’t be seen with a fat guy” is just outright hateful, and it shows that you are just the same person you were before. Physically, you’ve changed, but that’s superficial. Congratulations on your new life, OP. I hope you find happiness, truly, because it doesn’t sound like it’s found you yet.

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What if I became a fat phobic? Being fat made my life miserable. For one, I missed out on all the fun I could have had in high school. Mean girls, boys that asked me out for fun, cyberbullying etc. Even in grown up world, I still got different treatment bc of my weight. When I see fat people, I see the part of me that I hate. In a way, that triggers me

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Anonymous #3 4w

Because I see myself in him and I hate that old me. I was never the same. It's not only my body that changed. I also got rid of my glasses. Gave up my nerdy hobbies bc they no longer define me. Change happens to everyone

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No. I don't want to heal. I want to hurt them like they hurt me

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i can do what i want :)

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okay. you sound like a bitch. and so does OP

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just telling you to your face like you asked. and clearly it’s offensive to you since you’re downvoting all my shit

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Anonymous OP 4w

You’re not going to make it far with that mindset. Good luck, really.

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