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Can we make it socially acceptable to not wear bras. I hate them.
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Anonymous 1w

I actually prefer to wear bras but maybe that’s just cuz mine are too big. It’s pretty uncomfortable to me to go without one

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Anonymous 1w
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Anonymous 1w

This but I’m so scared men are gonna stare yk? Makes me uncomfortable.

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Anonymous 1w

Men 🤝 women Free the nip

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Anonymous 1w

Especially in the summer. Guys can’t understand how uncomfortable it is to constantly have sweaty boobs when it’s even slightly hot and humid

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Anonymous 1w

I literally don’t unless I REALLY have to. And if I wear tight white shirts

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Anonymous 1w

just don’t wear one, who cares what anyone thinks?? it’s your body, do whatever you want with it

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Anonymous 1w

Fun fact: wearing bras 24/7 (day and night) is linked to 1 in 4 women (test done on several million women in Switzerland) developing breast cancer due to restricting blood flow

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Anonymous 1w

Bras were supposed to make us MORE comfortable, not less. Wearing bras or not should be a personal choice based on individual preference and individual boobs.

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Anonymous 1w

I’m confused i thought we already did

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Anonymous 1w

I mostly wear loose clothing to not wear a bra

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Anonymous 1w

Girl I haven’t worn a bra in 4 years, what’s stopping you??

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Anonymous 1w

Isn’t it already? I got some large honkers and never once has anyone said anything bout me not wearing a bra (other than my mom but her opinion doesn’t matter)

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Anonymous 1w

I have to wear them or my breast hurt. I don’t understand how it feels to take your bra off when you get home. I always have one on. Cysts are treacherous

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Anonymous 1w

Free the nip

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Anonymous 1w

I fuck with the sentiment but personally I like bras cause I’m a trans woman who needs the bitty training wheels for a couple years

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Anonymous 1w

i never wear one , fuck that

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Anonymous 1w

No bra no problem

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Anonymous 1w

Tbh im about to say fuck it and throw all mine out. Idc anymore

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Anonymous 1w

I don’t wear them they’re so uncomfortable

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Anonymous 1w

If it were for my piercings, my current job of lifting heavy shit, and needing them to STAY in place, I wouldn’t fuck with them at all. I completely understand and appreciate the candor in this comment section

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Anonymous 1w

Yes 100% on board please do that (not a guy)

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Anonymous 1w

just do it, i promise you no one of actual importance is gonna care. i on the other hand enjoy bras!

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Anonymous 1w

I wish i could wear no bras but my boobs are too heavy so they sag 😞😞

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Anonymous 1w

y’all bras shouldn’t be uncomfortable!!! if they are you’re probs in the wrong size - various studies have found between 70-90% of ppl who wear bras could benefit from a different size. i know way too much about bra fitting and can talk for years abt it so if u have any questions abt how bras are sized or how they should fit PLS ask. also check out the calculator at abrathatfits.org if you’ve ever found bras uncomfortable and are interested in trying a new size!!

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Anonymous 1w

Literally. No woman wants to wear bras and if you think men don't want to see our nipples

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Anonymous 6d

Been freeing the tiddies since 2023

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Anonymous 1w

All for it

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Anonymous 1w

sweating my ass off in Georgia rn and i have to wear this dumb extra layer for my boobs

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Anonymous 6d

It is socially acceptable. Just don’t wear them -someone who is not shy to not wear a bra if it clashes with the outfit

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Anonymous 1w

As a dude, I agree free the nips

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Anonymous 1w

I want to but i haven’t been wearing them for so long and with my size I now have to save for a boob lift

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Anonymous 1w

I wouldn’t stop there I hate clothes

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Anonymous 1w

couldn’t agree more

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Anonymous 1w

yes

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Anonymous 1w

please

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Anonymous 1w

I don’t wear a bra often 😭

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Anonymous 1w

I don’t and idc

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Anonymous 1w

Suzie2k wears nothing

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Anonymous 1w

Yeah sure but like ppl r gonna look especially if you’re bigger chested it’s just reality

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Anonymous 1w

When my mom and aunt got their breast reductions done the surgeon told them they should wear bras as they prevent sagging by reducing skin stretching

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Anonymous 1w

not to mention bras were made by a man, they only exist because a man wanted perkier boobs and made pointy bras and they changed since then

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Anonymous 1w

Have not worn a bra since high school 👍

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Anonymous 1w

Get ur nipples pierced then it becomes socially acceptable to not coming from a girl w her nipples pierced

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Anonymous 6d

PLEASE

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Anonymous 6d

Girlie, I’m already doing that

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Anonymous 1w

No No no

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

We do have some organs that hang off of our bodies that get uncomfortable when it’s hot and humid

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Felt that

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

same actually!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

This is probably what started it, girls wearing bras cause it makes sense for those that have big boobs, but then it shifted to a status thing where you have small boobs and aren’t as appealing if you aren’t wearing a bra. For some girls there’s really no need

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 1w

That part

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Anonymous 1w

🚩

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 1w

Training bras and sports bras comfy af tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 1w

I’m not trans but wearing girl clothes occasionally is fun sometimes lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

you don’t wear a bra for them though do you andddd they are a lot smaller

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Facts

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 1w

Ugh same i hate it

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Anonymous replying to -> #35 1w

Whoa I support the IBTC, you should support the IBDC

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 1w

Then especially if ur wearing a top that requires no bra 🥀🥀

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

Dick and balls aren’t the same lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 1w

Gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 1w

Real

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Anonymous replying to -> roseberry_bread78 1w

Pretty sure places like Victoria’s Secret also do free bra fitting

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 1w

You can bra fit yourself for free and more accurately if you have a tape measure. Underbust measurement: band size. Take your Overbust measurement, subtract your underbust measurement, and each inch in difference is a cup size. 1in-A, 2in-B, 3in-C, 4in- D 5in-DD 6in-DDD/E, 7in-F, 8in-G, 9in-H, 10in-I, etc etc. Try on that size first, adjust cup size for overflow/gaping, adjust band size for support/comfort.

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 1w

And remember, bras should be worn on the outermost set of clasps and moved in as the elastic ages/gives out. So test the fit using the outermost clasp, and it should be most comfortable there

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 1w

they do but unfortunately their goal is not to fit you accurately, it’s to fit you into the range of sizes they sell. and unfortunately the 32-40 A-DDD system only fits something like 40-50% of ppl who need bras - so they typically use a method where they add 4 inches to the underbust measurement, which gives you a size 2 bands larger and 4 cups smaller than you actually need. they also tend to underestimate your bust measurement. some fitters go rogue and actually do it right but they’re rare

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 1w

this is accurate but i find that only measuring your bust while standing tends to underestimate due to gravity!! the calculator i linked has you measure in 3 different positions (standing, lying down, leaning over at 90 degrees) to get a better idea of how much space your chest will take up in a bra :)

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Anonymous replying to -> roseberry_bread78 1w

True! It’s recommended to wear your most comfortable/best fitting bra when measuring too, bc that tends to be the measurement where you like your chest to sit. Also important note is the shape of the cups will impact fit a bit too. For example, in the same size full coverage bra I deal with gaping, which leads to rubbing and chafing and for them to wear out quickly, just bc of where my breasts sit. But if I wear a balconette bra everything sits perfectly with no overspilling or weird top gaps

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 1w

i don’t claim to be a medical expert or anything but cysts would be aggravated by constantly wearing bras, right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #44 1w

Depends where they are/what type

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1w

who wears them overnight 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #44 1w

No. I was told to keep the bra on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #44 1w

Plus when I don’t have one on they feel like they tug on the cysts themselves they hurt bad enough to cry. With a bra on they really only hurt if I touch them or move the wrong way or bump them with my arm. So if that’s true I definitely couldn’t attest to it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 1w

oh i dont recommend wearing a bra at all when you measure!! i know a lot of people do but especially if the bra is made of that stiff foam material, you’re not measuring your chest at all - you’re measuring the bra :( and if you’re needing to measure, chances are the bras you have aren’t a great fit! that’s what makes those three measurements so helpful :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 1w

I’m not sure if ik the type. Tried researching it but google apparently doesn’t know types lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 1w

one of my friends wears sports bras to bed and i have no idea why 😭 the thought alone seems so uncomfortable to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 1w

some ppl get told that wearing a bra to bed will make the girls perkier. it’s entirely a myth and yet it persists

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Anonymous replying to -> #58 1w

Im scared of the pain 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 1w

Honestly it wasn’t bad at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

omg i hate not wearing bras like i just cant.. i get they need rest but id feel naked if im not wearing one idc 😭 i thought it was just me

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Anonymous replying to -> #60 6d

I wear bras like alll the time I love them

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 6d

me... i cant sleep nor go any day without wearing one 😭🙏🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 6d

i do bc i usually sleep naked but don’t wanna make my roommate uncomfy

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Anonymous replying to -> #62 6d

Try me since 2020😎

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 6d

Hater

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 6d

Girl if they stare, stare right back at their boobs. If a man does not know how to control his eyes, that is his problem not yours.

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