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Confessions 3w
This might split a crowd. But in the dating world, if anybody says “I’m so busy but I’ll make time to see you”. Idk if that’s a green flag. Don’t do me some big favor by “seeing me”. You either want to see me or you don’t. If you wanted to you would
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Anonymous 3w

I get you. The “but” makes it sound like a chore for them. I’d be much happier with a “I’m so busy, but I want to see you so I’m making time”

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Anonymous 3w

Have you been talking for a while or in a relationship? Because its hard to ask someone to put 100% effort on a person they arent in a relationship with. Plus it seems like they want to spend time with you when they could be spending time resting or doing something else. They're fitting you into their tight schedule and that seems like enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

You’re right. What I said is mainly talking about a longer term relationship. Not somebody you’re “trying to get to know”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Correct! It just comes off as we are “applauding a fish for swimming”.

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