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This might split a crowd. But in the dating world, if anybody says “I’m so busy but I’ll make time to see you”. Idk if that’s a green flag. Don’t do me some big favor by “seeing me”. You either want to see me or you don’t. If you wanted to you would
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Anonymous 41w

I get you. The “but” makes it sound like a chore for them. I’d be much happier with a “I’m so busy, but I want to see you so I’m making time”

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Anonymous 41w

You’re right. What I said is mainly talking about a longer term relationship. Not somebody you’re “trying to get to know”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 41w

Correct! It just comes off as we are “applauding a fish for swimming”.

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