Anonymous #1 5d

Fr I’m wayy too shy to make the first move. I’m very awkward so I never learned how to converse with men in general because I’m not worth exploring.

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Anonymous OP 5d

LMFAO you just gotta go for it that applies to us too lol

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Anonymous #1 5d

Well Im ugly so that rule doesn’t apply to me lmao

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Anonymous OP 5d

yeah so that attitude isn’t gonna get you anywhere. if you think you’re ugly? learn how to do makeup, do your hair and hit the gym. don’t complain and be unwilling to change, that’s a waste of time. also if a guy is staring at you like that? you’re good dw.

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Anonymous #1 5d

Well if he stares and does nothing I know it means he has a gf, or too scared to do anything, so inevitably it’s not worth exploring.

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Anonymous OP 5d

I’ve said hi to the main starer for me. Gave him an opening at least once. Still doesn’t talk to me. Pretty sure all his buddies are terribly disappointed in him based on the looks they’ve given him.

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Anonymous #1 5d

“don’t complain and be unwilling to change”? bro where is that part coming from. all she expressed is that she’s not deemed conventionally attractive—speaking on her own experience of how she’s viewed by others isn’t necessarily “complaining” in the first place

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Anonymous #3 5d

No you missed the point. If you’re calling yourself ugly you need to work on your self esteem. Chalking stuff up to being ugly is silly and isn’t helping, and if you really feel that way you should be trying to make a change to better yourself??? Instead of using us as an excuse??? Like to hell with what’s conventionally attractive it’s about confidence which is clearly lacking because we shouldn’t talk down on ourselves on an anonymous app?

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Anonymous #1 5d

nobody’s using you as an excuse for anything lmao, that’s what I’m saying. calm down. if you wanna perceive her comment as low self-esteem rather than a reflection of how other people have treated her, you can offer friendly reassurance without dismissing her perspective or blaming her for it

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