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i can’t do nonchalant men. like, do you like me OR NOT??????
66 upvotes, 17 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "i can’t do nonchalant men. like, do you like me OR NOT??????"
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Anonymous 2w

If you have to guess whether they like you or not, they don’t.

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Anonymous 2w

Women love mind games unfortunately

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Anonymous 2w

They don't

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Anonymous 2w

Have you considered asking

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Anonymous 2w

Ehh I’ll think about it

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Anonymous 2w

i never tell anyone i like them cuz i already know they wont like me back 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Not all of us which sucks because the women who do then ruin everything for the women who actually want to put effort into something

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I respect you and what you’re saying but idk man I never hear women say my guy loves me and makes it clear, they always go on about being confused and not knowing. Whenever dudes make it clear they’re interested some women tend to be turned off by the lack of chase I think

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I can understand that, honestly i think just finding genuine people in today’s dating pool is just hard and is frustrating for both men and women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

This is SO real ! I try to put my best foot forward always but gosh we are all struggling out here

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Yes but actions mean a lot more than words. Someone could say they’re interested but their actions say otherwise

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Men are difficult like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Ooooh yes i know 😭 i sent a very embarrassing but clear text to the guy im talking to giving him a CLEAR chance to let me know if he was still interested or not and he said he was and it’s been a week since i last heard from him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

As a man, unless his mom died or something, he’s probably doing one of the following, arranged in how likely it is: - Saying he’s interested because he wants a consistent FWB. - Saying he’s interested because he can see something happening but isn’t there yet. - Saying he’s interested but more interesting people are on his roster and he doesn’t want to take you off until he locks in one of them. No matter what I don’t think he’s interested. Sorry sis.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

no i don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

no we don’t, how’re yall gonna hear us say we want obvious love and still spout this bs

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