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Confessions 18h
Question for the guys: Do guys really bully their crushes? Why? And how can a woman tell the difference between true disdain or unlike with flirtatious bullying?
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Anonymous 17h

um yeah if she does it back that’s how yk im gonna wife her up

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Anonymous 17h

The whole “bully” crush thing is bullshit. That’s just a man who cannot or refuses to accept their feelings and are emotionally immature assholes that are likely misogynistic thinking they can treat women like shit and then try to get something out of them, like sex. College is waaay too old to be doing shit like that honestly

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Anonymous 14h

Unfortunately I genuinely bullied my boyfriend. Tbf we were friends and teased each other a lot beforehand tho. I was simultaneously building my minecraft house next to his. To match.

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Anonymous 18h

I just fistfight the women that I like

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Anonymous replying to -> captain_littlepenis 18h

💀💀💀 your comment + your name combo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

I agree.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

lol this person has never had a true flirtmance before and it shows

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Anonymous replying to -> captain_littlepenis 17h

I’m just not into immature bullshit. Either say what you feel even if it’s complicated or fuck off 🤷‍♂️ there’s a difference between teasing but it’s a whole other thing to bully or just be an ass

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Anonymous replying to -> captain_littlepenis 17h

lol my ex must have felt the same way but it was mostly open hand slapping

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

I think you’re too caught up in the semantics of the term bullying. Of course there are people who legit are just straight up mean and assholes and are emotionally walled-off but playful flirtation often takes on the form of minor teasing/“bullying” of each other in a fun and playful and tasteful way

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

If im going open hand its always a backhand because on top of being a pirate I’m a certified pimp

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Anonymous replying to -> captain_littlepenis 17h

Wanna pm and give me your input as to what you think after knowing the details?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Sure you are more than welcomed to shoot me a DM if you want

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