Anonymous #11 11w

Stop victim blaming. The trust was there who ever leaked the footage is at fault

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Anonymous #5 11w

Yeah, this is primarily an issue for girls. Dick is shareable, lol

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Anonymous #2 11w

So common sense is victim blaming now?

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Anonymous #2 11w

If I tell you don’t touch fire it burns I’m wrong?

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Anonymous #11 11w

To an extent. If they aren’t dating then sure, but if they’re dating then that level of trust should be present and whoever leaked is the douche

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Anonymous #3 11w

I agree with you 100% they definitely messed up for that. However, relationships do end and most of the time not on good terms. So gotta stay careful and protect yourself

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Anonymous #19 11w

Exactly it’s so stupid to me. Y’all wanna do stuff but forget about consequences or that it could go bad

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Anonymous #2 11w

Here comes the people that wanna act Like the victim 🫩 “victim blaming” 🫩 just say ur a slur and didn’t know the consequences cause all ur head knows is sex shit eat

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Anonymous #2 11w

Don’t run now, defend the nonsense you’re saying

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Anonymous #6 11w

No way! Fr?!

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Anonymous #12 11w

That’s so crazy

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So sad seeing other victims. I was 16 but I found a victim from the same guy and she was only 13 and before she was only 9😭😭 the cops took years investing and then dropped it!

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Anonymous #11 11w

1. Young and in love first relationship you aren’t thinking “oh what if they show this to other people?” There is a blind trust that goes into your relationship when you love them. 2. Coercion into filming or feeling guilty for not wanting to, the type of people to share intimate photos & keep them after you break up are the same people who will pressure you into sending them. 3. What if you’ve been with them for years? Or you’re married or engaged? At what point is it reasonable to fully trust?

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Anonymous #11 11w

You don’t know the experiences and context of all of the victims of revenge porn so victim blaming and just being condescending is really stupid. The people at fault for revenge porn is solely the people who share their partner’s personal videos with other people.

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Anonymous #11 11w

You can warn teens away from things like filming with their partners, but when you come in saying “or just don’t film anything in the first place” directed at the people who get their videos shared and not the ones doing the sharing when this posts is directly about the people holding onto videos of their exes and sharing them, that IS victim blaming because it’s changing the topic from “if you do this, you’re bad” to “well *other* shouldn’t have done this in the first place”

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Anonymous #12 11w

That’s so horrible 😨 I’m really sorry that happened to both of you

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Anonymous #22 11w

100% literally the second you break up they should be gone.

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Anonymous mother_russia 11w

facts, I also strongly believe in not asking for nudes in the first place. If they want to send nudes they can, but I have never asked for nudes

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Anonymous #7 11w

No way !

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Anonymous mother_russia 11w

You right I don’t. But I do know someone having my explicit content can be used against me. Go figure

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Anonymous mother_russia 11w

And I never said the person who shared was right. I’m saying it goes both ways. This generation likes to throw accountability out the window. When did consequences for actions get ignored?

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Anonymous mother_russia 11w

Exactly my point you don’t know so don’t be trusting blindly, it’s your job to protect yourself first, we have seen time and time again people do messed up things.

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Anonymous #11 11w

How are you replying to mother Russia I don’t see her name

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Anonymous #19 11w

They blocked you

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Anonymous #3 11w

Sad people can’t have people have a difference in opinion, and result to blocking

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Anonymous #3 11w

I always got along w her it must of been one of my troll posts sometimes I’m not so serious on yikyak

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Anonymous #19 11w

Or maybe dudes should stop acting like predators

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Anonymous OP 11w

Huh maybe stay keep ur legs closed and you won’t have to relate to the post

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Anonymous OP 11w

What a dumb take, so you think people are just going to change for you?

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Anonymous OP 11w

sweetheart you two should just hand over your phones and stick them in a locker, since you’re out here playing like reckless kids who think bad behavior gets a free pass. You know, like when schools have to babysit and lock up phones to keep everyone in line? Hilarious, right? That’s how ur acting 🤣

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Anonymous #24 11w

Nah I just wanna watch the world burn starting with the women who are dumb enough to send explicit images to people and then complain about the consequences

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Anonymous #11 11w

Change from being a predator..? That shouldn’t be expected….?

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Anonymous #25 11w

He’s saying her advice is trash because just shouting “change” or slinging insults like “predator” doesn’t magically fix people. You think folks are gonna transform just because you yelled at them or threw a label their way?

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Anonymous #19 11w

If they are true to that label then It’s perfectly reasonable ale to use it . But I definitely agree it doesn’t instantly change their ways. But they definitely need to start working on it.

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Anonymous #25 11w

It should be but you live in the real world. Don’t be dumb we all wish there was no world hunger but it’s a sad reality.

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Anonymous #19 11w

Love you, that’s what I mean.

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Anonymous #24 11w

Nah I just wanna watch the world burn starting with the women who are dumb enough to send explicit images to people and then complain about the consequences

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Anonymous #11 11w

I know it’s a bad world, but let’s please not use it as an excuse. And we should push for change.

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Anonymous #25 11w

No one’s using it as an excuse. Just saying it’s reality. And definitely push for change. But ultimately ensure to keep yourself safe. We have security in case someone tries to break in because it’s a possibility.

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Anonymous #11 11w

Yes I agree with you !

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Anonymous #29 11w

It’s weird to show it to anyone. Doesnt matter if theyre ur girls or ur guys

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Anonymous #32 11w

No no I think she is saying her OWN photos!

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Anonymous #32 11w

You are totally right that you shouldn’t send or show anyone else’s photos to anyone

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Anonymous #32 11w

Long distance relationships especially during college for a few months a year is very normal and a lot of people feel more comfortable with seeing them and/or their partner in a video or photo more than their partner watching pornography which they are much much more likely to do than not. So it’s not that strange. Also a kink thing for some people

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Anonymous mother_russia 11w

No I mean showing the sex tapes but not sending it to anybody

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Anonymous #29 11w

Oh dude so not cool at all. Why the hell would that be okay?!

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Anonymous #29 11w

Showing the videos without the consent of everyone in the video is revenge porn even if it’s not physically sent to them. That’s totally fucked up.

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Anonymous #34 11w

The downvotes 😂😂😂

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Anonymous #34 11w

Way to not hold men accountable 🤣 They are fully capable creatures of respecting the things around them. They simply choose not to.

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Anonymous #14 11w

I had an ex who would send random girls pictures of his willy. He kept getting balck mailed and the entire school saw his dick. now everyone knows hes ugly, stupid, and small dick man 🤣

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Anonymous #2 11w

Hard to respect something that doesn’t respect themselves

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Anonymous #34 11w

You mean like you. Someone mustve raised you wrong 🤣 Thats not how respect and or respecting people works. Oh thats almost comical.

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Anonymous #2 11w

Seeing posts about hooking up and easily having sex with people, I’m not so sure who respects themselves more lol

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