Confessions on Sidechat | Been thinking abt this post I saw abt how men yearning is prized and endearing but when women yearn it’s pathetic and pick-me. It was referencing Carrie Bradshaw and she def has her problems, but is it really so bad to be a woman who yearns?

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Confessions 1d

Been thinking abt this post I saw abt how men yearning is prized and endearing but when women yearn it’s pathetic and pick-me. It was referencing Carrie Bradshaw and she def has her problems, but is it really so bad to be a woman who yearns?

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Anonymous 1d

I judge anyone who does anything

Anonymous 1d

I see what ur saying and for good women yearning watch portrait w lady on fire

Anonymous 1d

Now that’s yearning

Anonymous 22h

I feel like women yearning isn’t bad, carrie is just a really bad example because she’s yearning for men who have treated her badly or she has treated badly 😭

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meowmeo3 1d

I actually did watch that back in the day lol. I will say, wlw yearning dynamics are pretty different from heterosexual yearning dynamics which is what I was referring to in the post. I’ve dated another woman (my first relationship actually) and communicating that yearning was super natural. But in my relationships with men, it’s been hard bc I worry abt how I’m perceived far more.

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OP 23h

I get what you mean, especially about being more conscious of how you’re perceived when it comes to men. Pining over a man vs another woman just hits different. There’s a different kind of intimacy to yearning for a woman