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Confessions 2w
lol my parents just said they are gonna teach me a lesson and not go to my graduation while no longer helping me pay for my education (which they lowkey already stopped doing)
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Anonymous 2w

???? Teach you a lesson for what? Why are your parents acting like they're your children??

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Anonymous 2w

Mind u all I said was I’m busy with class the whole summer. I have class till July 10th and go back to class Aug 20th. I also have to do an internship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yea when I’m home they also expect me to do all the chores, help my siblings with homeschool, babysit my siblings, cook almost all meals and somehow still help pay for goods we need at home. Like I give them way more than what they give me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

🙁 That sounds incredibly painful. You don't deserve the shitty parental hand you've been dealt, I'm so sorry. It sounds like you need to speak your piece to your parents. Be very honest about everything, whether it be via text, call, or in person. Then simply dip and let them sit with it for a while. Don't argue, no fight, just open communication from you, and let it marinate.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

"I love you guys so much. I kill myself trying to make you proud and meet your standards and do as much as I can to help. But honestly, I feel genuinely neglected/abandoned. It feels like nothing I do is enough, and it feels as if my own parents don't love or respect me. And ts is debilitating. Everyone just wants love from their parents. So I think I need to step back. I'll always love you, regardless of how you feel about me.' Or something And if they don't take it well/get angry-

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

(Which they probably will, their egos will jump and be like 'OH SO WE'RE JUST THE SHITTIEST FUCKING PARENTS BLAH BLAH BLAH'), that's on them. Once their emotions settle and they wrap their heads around your words, hopefully they'll step up. And if they don't, you're better off.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Ngl I’m too scared to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Thank you so much for the advice if I ever get the courage to do that I will

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

At your own pace, of course. Good luck, I wish you the best 🙏 Sometimes, even parents get lost in their own ego and tunneled perspectives, and just need to be slapped with the genuine truth to wake up. I hope that life starts treating you well, and your owed good karma is manifested soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

So my dad is the associate pastor and today he brought the sermon. I can watch this online. He told the church part of our conversation that we had yesterday.

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