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Is it wrong to ask someone who wants to hookup to get an std/i test. I always have proof, but ive had a few people get mad and saying it invasion of privacy and im being over paranoid and prudish. Like Im just trying to be safe, if they don’t get one, I
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Anonymous 6d

Refuse the hookup and they get really mad saying im a horrible and need to live my life

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Anonymous 6d

It’s smart, just be aware of incubation periods

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Anonymous 6d

They’re refusing you, so you refuse them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Whats an incubation period? Like for periods? I use condoms no matter what

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

So no pregnancy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

incubation period is like the non symptomatic period people can have an std but not show signs. but also if you are adamant about condom usage already then tbh imo demanding a test is a bit of an overstep. would be one thing if you’re a raw hopper but really i probs wouldn’t have sex w anyone who i wouldn’t take the word of if we are using condoms already anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Well things like crabs is basically genital lice and Ive seen pictures of herpes over large areas. So a condom might not protect from that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

i mean there’s certainly inherent risks to sexual activity period. like you can be on birth control and use condoms and still get pregnant, it’s statistically improbable but it is possible. and unless you’re just hooking up with the most questionable individuals possible in the first place, then 99% of people aren’t looking for new partners if they have an std or have been notified of potential exposure.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

I mean that’s fair, but my precautions are based on stuff that has happened to my social groups.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

It’s literally you being responsible and transparent

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

Thats what usually do, its safer that way. No matter how mad they get about it

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