Anonymous #1 3w

That's the thing my roommate is also kind of a slob and don't care but me I'm a damn clean freak and like for example we had our Christmas get together over here presents and everything and it was hella trash and filled my roommates cart up with it and she left to go play house with her bf and it was just the 3 of us and they said they were gonna take it out then they just left.... and I wish I had a say in charge the area of location apparently the 3 of them are mad at me rn sooo 🧍‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 3w

I don’t know who your friends are as people, but if what’s going on is bothering you so much and you’ve tried to talk to them and place down boundaries and their being disrespectful and not trying to understand your feelings, then I think it’s time to rethink your relationship with them. I mean this respectfully

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Anonymous #1 3w

Oh trust I have! I've came to the realization I became friends with them when I was struggling with depression and stuff and now since I have my shit together and know the life I want and goals I want to reach it doesn't match up with how they are as people and plus I'm not coming back here after this semester and I'm SO SO HAPPY!

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Anonymous OP 3w

PERIODDDDDDDD

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Anonymous #1 3w

Only problem is me and my roommate had a talk well over message and idk if she don't know how to be an adult and put it aside and she won't even look my way or talk to me I mean it's not a problem but I thought we could be adults and move past it yk

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yeah I know what you mean. Sadly that’s a how most people are. Common sense is hard to come by nowadays bc people are immature and aren’t emotionally intelligent.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Yea I've realize and I told her I'm going thru a lot of stuff and also I like doing stuff by myself and this might sound bad but I also am the type of person I'm fine with having out with my friends like 1-3 times out the month then just go ghost and pop up again out of nowhere and I've ALWAYS been like that and I told her that and she said well I need to communicate that but my whole life nobody has ever asked and just picked up on how I was and didn't make it a crazy big deal but they are😔

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Anonymous #1 3w

And then I look like the dick but I didn't realize it was that big of a deal and she tried to tell me like I need to hangout with them once a week or sum....

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Anonymous OP 3w

I don’t think it should be once a week, but I think that you should communicate with your friends about what friendship looks like to them. What they classify as being considered and a caring friend. Also how much they expect you to hang out with them. Everyone’s standards are different and it should be communicated in the beginning to avoid misunderstanding and so there isn’t fear of thinking the other is upset that you aren’t reaching out as often because it’s what you believe that is what—

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Anonymous #1 3w

They want

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Anonymous #1 3w

Yea I get that but she was rude about the whole situation from the get go so I gave rude back to her and now she's but hurt yet she went about this a WHOLE wrong way and I told her I fr haw a lot of life stuff going on and just trynna figure stuff out and she made it seem like nobody ever goes the rough like stuff and compared my stuff to hers basically which her problem is just time management shit mine I actually fucking problems problems 😭

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yeahhhh she don’t sound worth your time or energy. IGNORE THAT BITCHHHHH

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Anonymous #1 3w

Indeed plan on it bc they don't understand I have a life and they have all known each other since hs and I simply just never wanna see them anymore but it's fucking impossible

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