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scared because i think my bf lowkey just got mad at me for having friends and lowkey i think he just told me to stop having friends… i’ve only ever heard of situations like this idk idk idk
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Anonymous 2w

Hey imma be so fr, how about you make it so he doesn’t have a girlfriend and leave before shit hits the fan. And he leaves you alone and dependent on him.

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Anonymous 2w

run

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Anonymous 2w

I was in this and you need to run girl. Chances are he will not change and it will only get worse, get out sooner rather than later

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Anonymous 2w

My ex would never let me go out with my friends. Made me drop them at some point and got mad when I wanted to make more. Wish I never listened to him. Take it from me and run

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Anonymous 2w

As a guy here I’m telling you get out of there asap not worth the trouble

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Anonymous 2w

Are these friends male or female? If you have girlfriends he’s hating on you for having that’s no bueno

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Anonymous 2w

Yeah get out .. now

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Anonymous 2w

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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Anonymous 2w

My ex accused me of this, but all I said was, if she could give me a heads up if she was going out, hang out with her friends at a normal hour sometimes (like not always until 2-3AM). I wake up for work at 4:30. Still loved her when we broke up, still love her now, but she just kept choosing to make things out as what they weren’t 🫠

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Anonymous 2w

Let me just tell you- been there done that, RUN while you can

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Anonymous 2w

Fckkk whatd he say?? Im so sorry…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

he told me i was way too close to my friends and how he’d never let someone have so much access to him (ie. asking wyd, how your day is, ranting, etc) he said friends are only friends if they have something in common and when you’re asking about their day it’s not something you have in common and so it’s way “too intimate of a relationship”, his words

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yea… Im so sorry thats definitely an early sign of someone controlling they are trying rationalize why you shouldnt have friends while also exposing small hints of jealousy…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

he kind of said something along the lines of like “why am i not enough for you”. he later apologized kinda and it hasn’t been a huge huge issue since but i can’t stop thinking of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Do whatever your heart desires but to be aware it does tend to only escalate. You can try talking it out and seeing how he reacts but be careful and stay aware 🫶🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

thank you thank you it feels a bit better just saying all of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

oki so i have both but whenever he’d bring up an example he’d always use a make friend and then kind of ignore me when i brought up my girl friends ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I can at least sorta understand if you were doing this with guy friends for his insecurity to boil over like that but if you can’t have girl friends this won’t end well

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

i think he generalized the word friends but truly meant guy friends maybe ? idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

tbh him having a problem with just the guy friends would be more of a red flag to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

idk he just freaks out everytime and idk what to do because on one hand i think i should be able to have my friends but on the other i dont want to make him uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You need a life outside your relationship. Both of you do or that’s not a very healthy relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

i feel like i do and he doesn’t, and no matter how hard i try to encourage him for having a life outside, he gets upset that i have one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I was in a relationship like this and it was definitely rocky. Eventually it ended amicably but it could’ve ended multiple times not great

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

I let that man convince me that meeting new people my FRESHMAN YEAR OF COLLEGE was bad & like fight worthy because they were “randoms” who would never really know or care ab me like he did

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