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Yall is sex a non negotiable thing for you in a relationship?
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Anonymous 5w

Lack of sex is

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah but it doesn’t have to be frequent

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Anonymous 5w

Yup when it’s the top cause for divorce

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Anonymous 5w

It depends. My boyfriend and I both have very high drives and the only times we aren’t flirting in a dirty way or having sex is if I’m on my period or one or both of us is really stressed out. So in our case, it’d be really worrying if we weren’t (for reasons outside of that)

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Anonymous 5w

for me personally yes

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Anonymous 5w

yes but doesnt have to be alll the time

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Anonymous 5w

Yes if we are together I want you to have all of me and I want to have all of you like you’re mine! everything about you is mine from your teeth to fingers and everything about me is yours 😙

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

Once a month would be fine for me probably

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

I think compromise is key. You don’t need to have sex every single minute everyday as some people pointed out. But not having it at all or even rarely seems to me like it rips apart that connection, with one another through that yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I totally get it, and I can agree with that (depending on the couple)! Like my boyfriend is my best friend, and we’ve had a dry spell (I was really sick for a few weeks and had zero energy), but it’s figuring out how to manage it so that the connection isn’t fully lost. Like you said, compromise but also communicate reasons why you may not want to have sex if there’s a genuine reason for it outside of your health.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

Hey don’t downplay this persons upvotes. People have different niches.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

What

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

Oh someone was downvoting your comment.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Ohh ok lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Asexuals rise up

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

Let’s gooo

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