no i agree. i feel like a lot of people think they’re ‘owed’ sex in a relationship just bc they’re in a relationship. but you still need to put effort into your partner if you want them to feel comfortable enough/attracted enough to you to have sex

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I think there’s a valid conversation to be had about weapon sex in a relationship in the sense of using it to manipulate your partner into doing what you want. But generally speaking if the agreed established expectations of that relationship (whatever they may be) are not being met on either side, you cannot expect the other side to happily engage in sexual expressions of love

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On the other hand if you keep rejecting your partner when they initiate sex, there will be consequences, either cheating or breaking up

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My problem is that I'm hypersexual as fuck in relationships. So even when I'm MAD AS FUCK at my man, I still wanna smash 😭 like even moreso. That's when I throw him on the bed and borderline strangle him while I-

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