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Chronic Illness 2d
i accidentally forgot to clean up the bathroom after getting sick because i passed out on my bedroom floor and i really dont know how to make it up to my suitemate. I feel so horrifically bad for making her clean up the toilet and i dont know what to do
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Anonymous 2d

If you got sick and passed out from something chronic then just explain it to her and she should understand it’s out of your control

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Anonymous 2d

Just apologize and explain why, it doesn’t sound like it was really your fault? Maybe make her a little diy gift basket or smth?

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Anonymous 2d

Since a suitemate relationship is just sort of reciprocal behavior, if you’re thinking about making it up to her, maybe you could just do something nice for her to show that you appreciate it. Like if she has a favorite snack, maybe bring it for her one day and just say like I just wanted to thank you for doing that. Or maybe if you have a good pain day, you do a chore that’s usually her responsibility or something and then just text her saying “I did X for you as a thank you for…”

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Anonymous 2d

i dont know how to fix it other than to not let myself get sick in the bathroom anymore and to just continue to keep it super clean

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

i deep cleaned the bathroom through the pain a little bit ago and did all the bathroom related chores 😭 i still feel bad but i cant really afford to buy anything rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

That’s totally fine, I would just maybe say directly like “hey I did this because X” so she sees that like you did something with the intention of like evening the scales. And like again, it’s totally not your fault, I’m just thinking about a roommate relationship and how to kind of ease that awkward maybe tension!

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