Chronic Illness on Sidechat | I don’t get the trend of guys putting hospital pics in their dating profiles. Bc if I did that and got asked the backstory (“oh heyyy this from when I had brain surgery lolz”) suddenly im morbid 🙄 I don’t get what’s so funny and fun abt hospital trips

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Chronic Illness 3w

I don’t get the trend of guys putting hospital pics in their dating profiles. Bc if I did that and got asked the backstory (“oh heyyy this from when I had brain surgery lolz”) suddenly im morbid 🙄 I don’t get what’s so funny and fun abt hospital trips

Anonymous 3w

The thing is men are allowed to do certain things in society without judgement, a woman will always be judged

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Anonymous 3w

Sympathy farming. “Ohhh poor guys. I hope he’s okay.” Women are socially conditioned to be “caretakers”. It wouldn’t surprise me at allllll to know it’s coming from some sort of dating coaching thing for men.

Anonymous 3w

Morbid or no longer attractive because it’s ongoing thing. “Oh I have to go to hospital a lot bc my heart is fked up” and suddenly I’d be unmatched