
god that type of casual ableism is so maddening & soul-crushing, like people just resort to dismissing your circumstances because they literally cannot imagine what you’re up against and it’s more convenient for them to just decide that you’re being whiny or incompetent or w/e. I wish I had any advice that was actually practical / effective
fwiw, the only thing that really helps me Not crash the fuck out on a regular basis over how isolated & helpless I feel in daily life has been deliberately seeking friendships with other chronically ill & disabled people wherever I can (often online), especially people who consciously align themselves with disability justice politics & solidarity