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Chronic Illness 1d
Ik not everyone knows how to respond to sick things but I had someone just tell me “it’s better to look good than feel good” after hearing I lost 45 pounds due to gastroparesis and sibo…
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Anonymous 1d

I’ve had people say shit like that to me, I really don’t know why anyone ever feels the need to say anything other than “I’m so sorry that must be awful” but I understand ur pain Luckily I’m doing much better in this moment, but at one point in my life I was down to 91 pounds at 5’4, fighting for my life just to stay alive and by far the most damaging part of that entire experience was other people’s comments about my body, as much as I wanted to get better after losing 50 lbs,

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Anonymous 17h

I hope you have more good days than bad <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I hope you nothing but the best, i love you and things will get better, one day you will be fat, that’s me right now and i never ever thought id be happier to he 130 lbs I may be a little chubby but id personally rather feel good than look good Screw whoever told u that today

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Oh I know, I had cancer in high school and someone told me it was because of the microwave. You just have to smile and nod but it still catches me off guard when someone says something so foolish. I’m so glad you’re doing better!! Yes fucking looking good. (I will say I could’ve lost the first few pounds lol the treatment in high school made me overweight, so in its sickest way it was welcomed for a minute) but yk I wished I lost the weight from being healthy enough to go to the gym yk?

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